If a guy plays a girl, he is known 2 be a playa, but if a girl plays a guy, she is known to be a ho.

the word "player" is just sugar-coating the word SLUT

If a guy plays a girl, he is known 2 be a playa, but if a girl plays a guy, she is known to be a ho..whys thatballet

law of nature/peoples mindset

If a guy plays a girl, he is known 2 be a playa, but if a girl plays a guy, she is known to be a ho..whys thatglobe theater opera theater

society
Guys think of the guy as a player - I think of the man as pretty gross!

Can't Hold Us Down by Christina Aguilera tells this story. I don't know why it happens but it certainly does.
Read some Shakespeare and you'll know more than you asked for!
idk-good question
I don't know but its definitely not fair on a women. Neither sex should play another really.
Same as the Bible Man made
Double standards - both are sl uts..
It's a man's world... Patriarchal society!
I don't know. If a guy does it there cool if a girl does it there disgusting :S its always going to be a unsolved situation
because sexism is still around and people still think that a woman i supposed 2 be a housewife and never sin, but when a man does it , no-one thinks about it badly rerally cuz a man is a man lol
This has been my observation: he's known as a 'playa' only by the other guys he knows who are likely to do the same thing - or already have and feel so scummy that they now want some company so they won't feel alone and scummy. To the women who are watching from the sidelines, the ones with healthy self-image, he is known as someone to avoid - untrustworthy. They know they are worth more.

Girls, with low self-esteem, go along with it, even seem to ask for that kind of treatment because they feel like they need some serious attention from a man.

Girls, who go along with the 'playa', are known as 'ho' by other girls who are disgusted by their behaviour - it isn't jealousy - not by a long shot. "Experience" isn't admirable - though society makes it look like the best way to go for some 'fun'.

Is that really good enough for you? Wouldn't you rather spend your time with someone who appreciates you, who finds your personality and your qualities attractive, than with someone who is only there because you are male and breathing? Hold out for a quality girl - I think you'll find she was worth the wait.
i don't know why, its just cause thats the way it goes!
That's the way things are.